Since I and two other board members have sent in our resignations not a single person has said anything to me. Not a board member or even the Head Coach. My daughter had attended this sport club for almost 7 years and I've been on this stupid board for 4 years and the Head Coach doesn't even say a simple, so long to me. What a total jerk. I was going to leave my daughter in this sport group but don't feel I can in good conscience do that now. Not only will I be supporting this jerk of a coach but I'll be contributing to this whole dysfunctional group. I can't do that anymore.
So tomorrow when my daughter is supposed to be going to her sport she won't be. The good thing is we will save $150 a month now and we could really use that money for Christmas. And now I don't even have to go into that place at all! I feel guilty for taking her out of something she enjoys but this coach isn't above being passive aggressive towards her like giving her less coaching time or ignoring her. He also will make sure to make us unwelcome at events. He's just a jerk like that. Since this is such a small town it's not like she can just join a different group cause that is the only one. So she's going to have to find another sport to do.
If this coach retires I may let her rejoin but with him there she is not going back. The guilt is killing me cause she loves going but for her own sake I have to protect her. Plus we are really in a financial bind this year. With the husband working less hours and making less money we really can't afford to pay for this expensive sport anymore. Please help me feel better about having to tell her tomorrow that she can't go anymore. It breaks my heart to have to do it but I have no choice.
So tomorrow when my daughter is supposed to be going to her sport she won't be. The good thing is we will save $150 a month now and we could really use that money for Christmas. And now I don't even have to go into that place at all! I feel guilty for taking her out of something she enjoys but this coach isn't above being passive aggressive towards her like giving her less coaching time or ignoring her. He also will make sure to make us unwelcome at events. He's just a jerk like that. Since this is such a small town it's not like she can just join a different group cause that is the only one. So she's going to have to find another sport to do.
If this coach retires I may let her rejoin but with him there she is not going back. The guilt is killing me cause she loves going but for her own sake I have to protect her. Plus we are really in a financial bind this year. With the husband working less hours and making less money we really can't afford to pay for this expensive sport anymore. Please help me feel better about having to tell her tomorrow that she can't go anymore. It breaks my heart to have to do it but I have no choice.
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I can't believe how expensive it was though. Yikes!
It's so hard not to be able to give your child what she wants but I do feel better about it today.